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Andrea Lynn Moseley's avatar

Thanks for sharing! I love coffee experiences. I used to own a coffee shop.💕

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

So glad you enjoyed it, Andrea! Thank you for reading!

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Patsy's avatar

1. Would love to hear about the insights you gained from living in another culture/country.

2. What were the hardest adjustments you had to make after being immersed in the American culture / country again.

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Kirsten Hopper's avatar

Love it! It is those small activities that can define one’s experience in a foreign place, and they are usually hard to identify! You did a great job doing so!

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

Thank you, Kirsten! Miss you!

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The Sketchy Anthropologist's avatar

You made me do a nostalgic trip to the *kopitiams* I loved to stop by every time I would go to Singapore for work! Glad you found your way through the perfect cup of coffee, and perfect mix of languages!

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

Thank you! And I'm glad you enjoyed it! Did you have a "go-to" kopi order?

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Charlotte Stephens's avatar

You made this coffee sound so appealing, and I don't even drink coffee (it may have been the mention of roasting the beans in butter that got me, I'll be honest, I can't resist butter!) Well done on being brave enough to ask, I think I would have had the same anxiety!

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

Everything's better with butter, Charlotte! And I'll let you in on a secret...much of the ordering applies to tea also. Not the butter, though.

Thanks so much for taking the time to read and "like" and comment -- it really means a lot to me!

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

You never forget that first time. And probably not the second! Thank you fir taking the time to read and comment, Dina! I appreciate it!

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dmm25's avatar

Ever wondered how the way coffee is made and consumed either affects or is affected by societal behavior?

Spoiler alert: It's more influential than your morning horoscope.

https://substack.com/home/post/p-147344389

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

Interesting piece. Thank you for sharing!

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Dina Coppel's avatar

Love it Amanda! Right on the button of how complicated it is to get one's coffee order right in Singapore :)

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Joy G's avatar

Enjoying your work, thank you!

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

Thank you for taking the time to read, Joy! I appreciate it!

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Oanh Ngo Usadi's avatar

Terrific essay! Brought back wonderful memories of Singapore.

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

Thanks so much, Oanh!

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Lauren Rose's avatar

So relatable! I was so proud of myself when I learned to order Kopi peng gau siew dai. 😂

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

I'm proud of you too, Lauren! It's a real accomplishment! Thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment!

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Dana Berkowitz's avatar

A complicated cup of coffee that you handled with such aplomb.

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

I did my best, Dana! It was easier the second time! Thanks so much for reading and commenting.

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EDNA SED's avatar

Wonderful as always. Amanda's essays lift me up out of the overwhelm of the day. She helps me imagine I go wherever she goes. Looking forward to the next essay.

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

Thank you, Edna! You're so kind!

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Joey Held's avatar

This was such a delightful read and made me long for Singapore coffee again! You ordered much more efficiently than I ever did.

On a side note, I hope you encountered this wonderful coffee mural while you were out there. So stunning! https://yipyc.com/blog/2016/11/11/coffee-story-mural-art/

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

I definitely did, Joey! Almost included it in the piece as an illustration....Isn't it great?

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Tessa Cranfield's avatar

Loved this! I also try to ‘master’ a language before visiting… Japan recently was a particular low for me where I couldn’t even get the place names straight. Thanks Amanda for making me feel better about it!

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

LOL, Tessa! Thanks so much for reading! We "language optimists" are a special lot. Never give up! (Japanese is supposed to be the hardest language to learn, by the way.)

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Chris Stanton's avatar

This was such a fun read, Amanda. I drooled on my iPad when I got to coffee beans roasted in butter and sugar. My immediate thought was, why isn’t this standard operating procedure everywhere???

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

LOL Chris, I'm so sorry (or so happy?) about the iPad. Thanks so much for reading and commenting. I always appreciate it!

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